FLIRTING in Spanish: the Ultimate Guide
Thinking about approaching a Mexican girl by saying “¡Hola, guapa!“? Well, think twice!
If you don’t want a language barrier to ruin your chances of finding true love, you are in the right place! I will teach you five phrases you should use to up your flirting game en español. I’ve kept it classy, simple, fun, and gender neutral!
1. ¡Qué bien te queda!
This phrase could be translated as “that looks great on you”.
- ¡Qué bien te queda esa falda! (How great that skirt suits you!)
- ¡Qué bien te queda ese saco! (How great that jacket suits you!)
- ¡Qué bien te queda ese color! (How great that color suits you!)
2. Tienes una voz / sonrisa muy bonita.
This phrase may be translated as “You have such a beautiful voice” or “You have such a beautiful smile”. Complimenting the voice or the smile of a person is always a nice classy little touch.
You can also say:
- ¡Qué bonita sonrisa tienes! (What a pretty smile!)
- ¡Qué bonita voz tienes! (What a nice voice!)
You might want to refresh your language of love, so check out Cory’s video on just exactly that!
3. ¿Me permites invitarte algo?
This question may be translated as “Would you allow me to get you anything?” It is like a better version of: “Can I get you a drink?”
Me permites is a good chunk to learn because you can also use it in another context to say: “Excuse me”.
So, “Me permites invitarte algo” or “¿Puedo invitarte algo?” (Can I get you something?) are phrases that exude flirtatious energy AND when combined with the fact that you would be trying to speak another language… Oh, my God! Definitely cute and irresistible! 😍
4. Me gusta mucho tu estilo.
This sentence may be translated as “I really like your style!” C’mon! Who wouldn’t love to be complimented on their style?
I love this phrase because it is general and yet, depending on how it is uttered, it can feel muy personal (very personal). It may also refer to one’s fashion sense and personality, which is always a good way to empezar una conversación (start a conversation) with a beautiful human being.
5. Me encantaría verte de nuevo. ¿Qué opinas?
This means “I would love to see you again. What do you think?” Now, we would say this assuming all the previous ones worked!
Learn “Me encantaría” (I’d love to!) as a chunk of Spanish. It can be very useful in a variety of ways.
- ¿Quieres ir al cine? (Do you want to go to the movies?)
- ¡Me encantaría! (I’d love to!)
- Me encantaría una cerveza. (I'd love to have a beer.)
So if you were lucky and that special person is into you as well…
…when you say: “Me encantaría verte de nuevo. ¿Qué opinas?“
They will respond: ¡A mi también! (Me too!) 🤩
FREE Spanish Training
¡Muy bien! Now you know five phrases that will make you sound charming and classy when you are pursuing the attention of that gorgeous Spanish speaker of your dreams!
Now, if you want to be able to keep up the conversation after your first flirting attempts, you might have to learn a little more Spanish. We can help with that!
We have a Spanish training on our website where you'll discover the method we use in our Spring Spanish Academy to teach students to speak fluent Spanish. You also get some free sample Spanish lessons there that come straight from our Academy!